A perfect friend

>>  Sunday, September 21, 2025

Perfect Life 


I had a perfect friend, 
I see a perfect life-
thirty years apart, 
but a few public photos tell it all.

Her family was steady
from the day she was born. 
No shadows to wrestle, 
no scales out of form. 

Her steady mind
 sashayed her through college years,
School sweetheart marriage, 
their children grew 
    just as they should. 

Her husband still brings her roses. 
Date nights, dinners, 
evening walks, 
   contented, hand in hand. 

They bought wisely- 
a house in a place on the rise, 
thinking of schools, 
 of lifestyle, 
 not a village in demise. 

Facebook whispers: 
 Add her. 
It knows I’ve been circling 
     her polished life.

 Her Tupperware doesn’t cascade
 (Private sharing only!) 

Perfect her. 
Perfect life. 

 (Where are her wrinkles?) 

My time has been 
      a bucket of messy
 decisions, 
     a messy life, 
        a brain 
             spilling 
     chaos. 

 Climbing mountains.
     Running roads. 
         Paddling rivers. 

  Muddy games
        in muddy fields. 

 Litter picking 
         my world clean. 

 Friends
          I can count on.

 A career
          forged in my own way. 

 Marriages,
     child, grandchildren.

 Guiding girls
      through adventures 
       beyond compare.


 Ohhhhhhh 

            imperfect me
                good life


 


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Maze 2025

>>  Sunday, August 03, 2025


We have visited the local maze every year since it opened, we always walk every inch of path, marking it off with a highlighter pen as we go. We use the 'hard' map without extra clues. 








This year the maze has been designed in the shape of a Steam Train to mark the 200th Anniversary of the modern railway.












Whilst mini-cog is walking some, they are not yet ready for our military approach to the maize maze mission. We even time it now!  We might go as a whole family another day!



As always my tips for visiting a maize maze are:

Call in advance, they will tell you how muddy (or not) the paths are and if you need wellies, trainers or sandals. And then stick all 3 in the boot anyway!

Take a small backpack, with waterproofs, hats, and bottles of water.

Take cash - ours now takes card payments by preference, but occasionally the wifi is not great so I still recommend taking cash or be prepared to drive a long way to find an ATM!

Take a couple of pens - they will charge you for a pen.

If you want to make it easier, take a highlighter pen and mark off the paths as you go round.

Ours is totally wheel chair and pushchair accessible unless it is really really muddy. They have lots of viewing platforms and helpers, you won't lose your children (for long) no matter how hard you try and they have quick exits so you can get out to the loos and then go back in again without having to walk a million miles.

At ours there are lots of other games and mini mazes to do as well, picnic tables and plenty of parking. It is an easy, fun day out and I thoroughly recommend it for a family few hours of togetherness and exercise....oh yes and yelling at each other debating about which way to go!


As maze post tradition now dictates, here is my maze gallery:


2024 'Olympics' and the maze was a javelin thrower. 
Crop was low, thin and breaking easy, even just before harvest.





2023 'marine life at risk' good high crop. 




2022  Platinum Jubilee. A very hot day, 30C
Me and HWMBO 















2021  - the Phoenix rising from the Flames after Covid, Me and HWMBO

End of season height, coats and lots of sunflowers



















2020 - Not open because of Covid lockdowns.


2019 -  Astronaut to mark 50 years since the first man on the moon.

HWMBO & I went





















2018 - NHS Ambulance theme with Australian friends and Cog not long out of intensive care.





















2017 - A hot year and a good crop
























2016  was a bad year all round but points to us for still making the effort to go.












This was a good crop year and a fun afternoon with friends.



















2014
The weather couldn't make up it's mind, warm, sunny and wet at different points of the walk.

















2013

This was the best crop they'd had in a long time.





2012
Dreadful crop year. But the sunflowers meant it was still well worth seeing.














2011

The owners said it was a bad crop year. It seemed pretty tall to me, but maybe it's about the size and number of the maize itself, not just the height of the plant.










2010

The height was there but the plants were rather lame








2009




A wet year I think as we are wearing wellies.









2008   Again not too bad a height.




















2007
Looks like another bad year.
















Cog  always reminds me that 2006 was the 'alien' year and she went with her father, not me.








2005



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